What Can I Do if My Partner Wants an Abortion, but I Want to Keep the Baby?

You may feel overwhelmed when you and your partner disagree on an unintended pregnancy decision. On the one hand, as the pregnant woman, she is most impacted by it. On the other hand, you likely have strong feelings and are unsure how to navigate this situation.

Knowing how to approach this subject sensitively can be difficult, but you’re not alone. Care Net Pregnancy Center of Paradise will provide helpful services and emotional support.

Keep reading to learn the top things to consider.

Respect is Crucial

Open dialogue is key to a healthy relationship. Keep communicating and showing that you’re willing to listen.

It is helpful to learn why your partner is considering abortion. Perhaps there are fears she hasn’t felt comfortable opening up about, or others are influencing her decision. You can demonstrate that you’re in this together by providing a listening ear.

If you are interested in parenting, you may wonder how to approach this subject. There’s lots to consider, and the advocates at Care Net Pregnancy Center of Paradise will help you navigate those conversations.

Discussing All Options Can Open New Doors

After listening to your partner’s perspective on abortion, you may have pinpointed specific concerns, like financial instability or lack of support from family or friends. Discussing those concerns with an unbiased, non-judgmental third party can help her make an informed decision.

One of our advocates will discuss your partner’s options: parenting, adoption, and abortion. In addition to addressing the risks and side effects of abortion and exploring what making an adoption plan looks like, we’ll provide information on parenting resources and support.

Ultimately, it’s your partner’s decision. However, her perspectives may change after hearing what is available. For example, we provide free parenting courses, material aid, community referrals, and more.

If your partner does not wish to raise the child but would prefer to give you custody, that is another option. However, discussing that process with an attorney will provide clarity. We’ll connect you both to the necessary resources.

Having these conversations can be tough, and things might feel tense. However, it’s critical to process your own emotions around the pregnancy, give your partner time to navigate hers, and approach the situation as calmly as possible. Emphasizing compassion and respect is crucial.

Here to Help

We know an unplanned pregnancy was probably the last thing on your mind, and it often helps to have someone to talk to. We’re here for you no matter what you’re facing right now.

Make a free and confidential appointment today to discuss your situation and receive the support needed during this time.

Care Net Pregnancy Center of Paradise does not refer for or perform abortions.