What Can I Do if My Partner Is Pregnant, but I Don’t Want To Be a Dad?

No matter your unique situation, you will always be a dad now, regardless of your partner’s pregnancy decision. We know that reality can feel major, but you are not alone.

Consider talking through your struggles with fatherhood with someone you trust. Our compassionate staff at Care Net Pregnancy Center of Paradise is here to support you.

Be Open With Your Partner

It’s essential to keep open communication between you and your partner during this time. While it can be tempting to want to isolate yourself, you both are involved in this pregnancy situation. Try your best to explain your fears and discuss your pregnancy options together.

Your partner may want to parent, and that decision is still entirely up to her. Talk in a safe and non-judgmental place today at Care Net Pregnancy Center of Paradise if you need to better explore all your pregnancy options with your partner.

Address Your Fears

Getting the counsel you need as the man in this situation is also important. Be honest with why you’re feeling the way you do. Talk it out with someone you trust, like a parent, mentor, or an older friend.

If your partner chooses parenting, you might be worried about being a good father. This is understandable and completely normal. However, resources are available to help you feel more prepared.

Free Parenting Resources Are Available

At Care Net Pregnancy Center of Paradise, we provide free parenting courses designed to prepare you for fatherhood. You’ll learn the basics of newborn care, how to cook healthy meals on a budget, and much more.

We also offer a free fatherhood mentoring program, in which one of our male staff members can talk in person with dads who need extra support.

Talk through your concerns and questions with us today. Contact us to schedule a free, confidential appointment. We’re here for you and to come alongside you during this time. You are stronger than you know.

Care Net Pregnancy Center of Paradise does not refer for or perform abortions.